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Passive-aggressive people piss me off.
Not really... but, I find it increasingly frustrating to try and help people who claim they want help, but expect you to do all the work for them. At times, I feel so dragged down... Like I am drowning, not in my own issues, but in all the issues of those around me.
Take for instance my one friend.... He is intelligent, sweet, good hearted, giving, and one of the best guys in the world to have as a friend... but... He whines. He is passive-aggressive. Complains about his "shitty" day, makes these veiled comments about "ending it all" and shit like that, and then doesn't show up online again... When someone does that sort of thing, I figure they are just wanting some time to sort through what is going on in their life, and I leave it alone, always with the hope that they know they can call on me if they need to. I know now that his behavior was "fishing". :| In his special passive-aggressive manner, he wants people to worry about him, but then apologizes for "making" people worry, or says they "shouldn't fuss" and other classically passive-aggressive phrases. UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG I have to rant here for fear that I will say the wrong thing.... Ahhh, that constant fear of saying the wrong thing. I suppose that is something I will never grow out of. I think I am done for now... with the ranting at least.... but, passive aggressive people still piss me off.
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